One of the most important tasks during the wedding planning process is to create a guest list.  Most start their list by writing down everyone they have shared a life experience with since childhood.  The thought behind inviting everyone is truly endearing; however, that guest can get out of control.  I like keeping things simple, so here are some rules to follow when determining who should be on your guest list:

• Are They Family?  Inviting immediate family members from both side, should go without saying.  Immediate family are parents, grandparents, siblings (spouses), aunts, uncles, and cousins of your generation.
• Are They Friends?  It must be established if the person is a friend or an acquaintance, there is a difference.   Friends are the people in your life although life circumstances may have limited the amount of time that you spend together; however, would bring so much joy to have them with you on your wedding day.    I would definitely add close friends of parents on this list; however, proceed with caution, remember this is your Wedding Day and you should be able to choose who you want to share your Special Day with.
• Are They Co-Workers?  Most say this is an easy task to handle; however, the size and dynamics of your workplace can make it a daunting task to tackle.  I know you are exciting about your wedding and want to share with your co-workers all the fabulous plans that you and your Wedding Planner are doing.  However, keep in mind when you are sharing with your co-workers, will these same co-workers receive an invitation.  You should typically invite co-workers that you spend time with outside of the work place.
• Will This Person Add Value? There are some people in this world that are not family, close friends, or co-workers; however, have impacted your life in some way, yes they should be added to your guest list ( babysitter, teacher, old neighbor, etc)

I hope that you found value in this blog and that some of the stress has been taken away while you are starting, revising, or completing your Wedding Day Guest List.

WE Listen.. WE Create.. You Enjoy

Lillian